Management

First step is to look out for any medical illness. Consult your family physician and feel free to discuss your sexual problems.
Stop taking alcohol. Alcohol increases the sexual desire initially, but in the long term it affects the sexual life adversely.
Some women may have unrealistic expectations and they often complain of decreased sexual desire despite having perfectly normal sexual life.
One should be aware of the fact that some degree of decline in sexual desire with increasing age is normal.
Once the medical condition is excluded it is always advisable to look back into the other factors that affect the sexual desire such as stress.
Improve communication with your partner. Spend some more time with your spouse and try to express your sexual and non sexual problems openly.
If the problem persists, then psycho- counseling, behavioral and interpersonal therapy can be very helpful.